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8 Essential Questions to Ask Your Oncologist After a Breast Cancer Diagnosis

Being diagnosed with breast cancer is life-changing. It’s completely normal to feel scared, overwhelmed, or confused about what comes next. One of the most important steps you can take is to have an open and informed conversation with your oncologist. Asking the right questions will help you better understand your diagnosis, treatment options, and the road ahead.
Here are some key questions to consider:
- What type of breast cancer do I have? There are different types (such as invasive ductal carcinoma or triple-negative breast cancer), and knowing your specific diagnosis is crucial for understanding and choosing the best treatment plan and can determine if you do chemo or have surgery first.
- What is the stage and grade of my cancer? Ask how advanced the cancer is and how aggressive it appears to be. Is there evidence of cancer that’s moved into the lymph nodes, or is it still local to the breast. This information helps guide treatment decisions.
- Is my cancer hormone receptor-positive or HER2-positive? These results affect how your cancer behaves and which treatments will be most effective. It will determine which chemotherapy drugs you may need, and when
- What treatment options are available to me? Your options may include surgery, chemotherapy, radiation, hormone therapy, or targeted therapy. Ask which combination is recommended and why. Ask if there are any new trials that you may qualify for.
- What are the goals of my treatment? Is the aim to remove the cancer completely, reduce the risk of recurrence, or manage the disease long-term?
- What are the potential side effects? Knowing what to expect can help you prepare for and manage changes to your body and daily life. Ask about alternatives therapy to help with potential side effects, like acupuncture, oil pulling, or reiki.
- Will I need genetic testing? Ask if you should be tested for BRCA or other genetic mutations, which may influence treatment and affect family members.
- What support services are available? Look into counseling, support groups, and programs for nutrition, exercise, or financial guidance.
Bring a notebook and these questions, and consider bringing someone with you to appointments. This is an emotional time, and there will be an avalanche of information coming to you in the first few appointments. Being informed can empower you to take an active role in your breast cancer journey.