Why Saying “Let Me Know If You Need Anything” Isn’t Enough

We’ve all said it. It feels kind. Open-ended. Generous.

“Let me know if you need anything.”

But here’s the problem: they won’t.

When You’re in Crisis, You’re in Survival Mode

People facing illness or hardship don’t have the energy to:

• Think about what you could do.
• Guess what you’re actually willing to help with.
• Follow up and ask.

It puts the burden back on them—when they’re already overwhelmed.

What to Say (That Actually Helps)

🧡 “I’d like to drop off dinner on Wednesday—does that work?”
🧡 “I’m heading to the grocery store. What can I grab for you?”
🧡 “Can I take the dog for a walk this week?”

Specificity is love. Action is love.

Enter: The Wellnest Support Calendar

We created Wellnest to make it easier to act on your good intentions.

• Sign up for meals or errands.
• See what’s needed and when.
• Offer help without back-and-forth texts or guesswork.

You don’t need to wait for them to ask. You just need the right tools to show up.